The moment between the releasing and the receiving of a new message if it ever comes, can be a time of uncertainty in an individual's life. There are a few things that causes someone to want to retrieve the irretrievable, for example, you're brave enough to make the first move and text the person first "hey x" and then you wait....wait...and wait some more at that moment you are filled with regret but you don't need to, there's always an explanation for these things; he/she could have gotten so exited at the sight of your text that they fainted...what? it's possible. You question whether you should have added the "x", was it too much? or maybe saying "hi" would have made you worthy of a reply.
Let's say you made it past the first round and it's getting a bit on the flirty side, he's talking about how good you looked in that dress and how it'll look better on the floor of his bed room or she's talking about how toned your biceps are how she'll like to feel it. You're trying to be sexy too but you're not too sure on how far you should go because everyone has very different ideas of what is sexy. While some people may believe that humour is very sexy, some might see it as a cock block, some might prefer a more subtle approach while others are blunt as a butter knife. Either ways you'll never be able to see their immediate reaction and that's what makes texting so daunting.
Personally I hate texting and I avoid it like the plague, I would much rather talk on the phone but in this day and age texting is a necessity, everybody does it and you just have to get with it, the point of this blog is that everyone remotely human feels this way so don't beat your self up, don't over think and have fun with it; who cares if you get no reply of if they reply ridiculously late, those people are simply giving you an easy way out of a mundane and draining conversation.
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